I
held your hand—delicate and cold diseased reality—calling me your cousin
flickering
fluorescents; baby blues blinking
clawing
at chords stuck in your arm
I
want to remember your sugary perfume gripping onto my clothing after our
embrace
days
later, that scent on the green velvet couch lingering
where
you sat telling me about being a farm-girl
with
the cornfields and the Mennonites making cheese in their basements
Columbus
in the ‘40s—smoking outside of class (because everyone did)
Lima
in the ‘60s—with the riots, with the rage, with the risk
I
want to remember your forceful independence; marrying someone you met while
teaching in Japan
Later
divorcing him, to the shock of all
I
want to remember summers with you:
Hours
of gin rummy and the puckering-shock of Sunkist
The
joy of mutual books—
devouring
1984 in at night, warm-light leaking
onto
those musty-yellowed pages in your bedroom with your beautiful jewelry and then
the
morning sounds of you clanking around and
That
smell, the smell of you
Not
the reek of shit
Not
the shaking to get to the bathroom
Not
the time I held your hand to make it
I
saw the sagging skin on your thighs for the first time
You
wore nothing but a diaper
Shielding
you in that hallway
From
company’s eyes
I
want to cradle your quivering body, covering your panic, hiding your pain
Hiding
you
Protecting
your dignity
I
want to keep you
And
how you left
After
the subzero temperatures and snowstorms every weekend
You
left when the robins came back
An
absurd number of them
A
thousand of them
All
screeching, all chirping next to the care facility’s sloshy pond
In
that honey-glow afternoon
While
winter left with an unexpected song
During
that cyclic hope
You
let go